I learned to care for my emotional self during a time of angst and sadness. Not long after my mama
died, I fell into a hole that I worked very hard to climb out of. With the help of a few practitioners and the
undying support of my husband, I did it! I decided then that I never wanted to fall into that big of a hole
again and so for about 13 years, I have followed a simple practise that allows me to keep my emotions
forever in check.
died, I fell into a hole that I worked very hard to climb out of. With the help of a few practitioners and the
undying support of my husband, I did it! I decided then that I never wanted to fall into that big of a hole
again and so for about 13 years, I have followed a simple practise that allows me to keep my emotions
forever in check.
The following is my daily routine:
My feet do not hit the ground in the morning until I smile warmly, concentrate on one deep breath and
am thankful that I am where I am.
am thankful that I am where I am.
In the shower, I ask that I be cleared and released of any negativity that is or isn't mine and I again
breathe deeply and am grateful.
breathe deeply and am grateful.
Inspired by Matthew McConaughey, every morning I write in my gratitude journal:
- I give thanks to for… (often something from the previous day, or a warm bed, a roof over my head,
etc.) - I write in thankfulness to for… (the opportunities I have been gifted)
- I look forward to… (on school days it usually involves being with 5 year olds and sometimes it is
simply that I get to sit on my verandah in silence with a glass of wine.) - I write about what I will chase that day… (always one of my character traits, like, my best listening
self)
World peacemaker, Mahatma Gandhi said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the
service of others.” Each day, I think of something good that I will specifically do that day and ask that I be
shown of what service I can be.
service of others.” Each day, I think of something good that I will specifically do that day and ask that I be
shown of what service I can be.
As I drive to work, I ask that all of my loved ones remain safe that day until they return to their
respective beds and ask that all of the people that I love and the people I will meet that day (even if I
just meet them in passing on the highway) stay safe and are cared for. I ask the Universe to help me be
a better person that day than I was the day before.
respective beds and ask that all of the people that I love and the people I will meet that day (even if I
just meet them in passing on the highway) stay safe and are cared for. I ask the Universe to help me be
a better person that day than I was the day before.
Before going to bed at night I again check in with myself, to see how the day went and if I need some
guidance so that I can be an even better person the next day.
guidance so that I can be an even better person the next day.
I truly believe that we are here on purpose to use our gifts and talents to work and be together, lifting
each other up, for the good of our world.
each other up, for the good of our world.
These are my daily habits that I had to practise every day so that they would be just that, a habit. And
then... I also, breathe easy lots, look people in the eye, discern intent, write,
then... I also, breathe easy lots, look people in the eye, discern intent, write,
laugh with friends, read for joy, practise yoga, garden and cycle.
Will I fall into a hole again? Possibly, but I know it will not take me long to climb out again.
Love
~ Ellyn
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